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2 Professionals You Should Consult Before Going Ahead with Divorce Proceedings

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No one wants to get a divorce. Even those who feel that a divorce will bring them freedom still have some feelings of regret when it comes to signing divorce papers. Besides the hurt feelings that often accompany divorce proceedings, there may be feelings of failure, disappointment, remorse and sadness.

Before signing divorce papers, consider whether or not you really want a divorce. Then, discuss the matter with some professionals who can give you different perspectives on the issue.

Things to Think About Before Filing for Divorce

Getting a divorce is a big step and requires careful consideration. It can be easy to feel overwhelmed with negative emotions if you and your mate are going through tough times. If this is the case for you, take some time to ask yourself the following questions:

  1. Do I really want to end my marriage?
  2. Do I still love my spouse?
  3. Does my spouse still love me?
  4. Are our issues something that can be worked through with time and patience?
  5. What is my spouse feeling right now? Do they want to work on things or end the marriage?

These and other important questions can be found in a Huffington Post article written by Winifred M. Reilly , a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist.

2 Professionals to Consult Before Proceeding with a Divorce

Some of these questions may best be answered with the help of the following professionals.

  1. A Marriage Counselor. If you’re wondering whether you should go through with divorce proceedings, a marriage counselor can help. You can see a therapist on your own as well as with your spouse. Working together with a counselor can help you work through tough issues and ultimately help save your marriage.

When a couple have marital problems, it is easy for loved ones to take sides. A therapist is a neutral party who will help you come to your own conclusions. They can help you save your marriage or realize you’re in an extremely bad situation and need to get a divorce.

  1. A Divorce Attorney. When your marriage is on the rocks, it can be easy to make hasty decisions. After all, you just want to get out of the situation and feel good about life again. If you’re feeling this way, talk to a divorce attorney before you make any decisions. Their advice will help protect your when divorce proceedings begin. For example, they might tell you to avoid leaving the marital home without good reason. Leaving the home could mean that you can’t go back until after your divorce. It can also affect your ability to gain alimony or the amount of alimony you have to pay.

If You Decide Divorce Is The Way To Go…

Sometimes the best course of action is a divorce. If this is what you’ve determined, you’ll need a divorce attorney who will give you helpful advice and be a pillar of support. Contact the attorneys at John C. Fitzpatrick today for more information about how we can help you during divorce proceedings.

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